In particular given this is HN, any tech things to think about? We’re getting rid of the TV. Just this morning I was thinking about a star map for the nursery but maybe that’s distracting.
Split the responsibilities and dont wait for your partner to ask for help.
Start a 529 now.
Have a computer with OpenBSD. Not for nothing can it do any thing, if they're willing to start from less.
When they are old enough, around four, get them on to Linux!